Online Dating Advice: 3 Online Dating Profile Tips to Attract Quality Men

3 Online Dating Profile Tips to Attract Quality Men

Women have the advantage when it comes to online dating. Dating Coach MN, Online Dating, Dating AdviceThis doesn’t mean however women are off the hook in putting forth effort to draw men in.

Women Should Rock their Online Dating Profile Picture

We all know men are visual, so it is imperative that your online dating profile pictures are inviting to men. They should be clear, current (ideally taken in the past 3 months), and authentically look like you. Give them 3 great pictures; a head shot, mid body shot and a full body shot. Women who convey femininity as well as energy in their profile pictures tend to get noticed. You want to make sure that your online dating profile pictures send the marketing message you desire. Classy online dating profile pictures over trashy ones win if you are seeking a committed relationship.

Men Are Not Looking for a Harlequin Romance Novel 

Your profile should NOT be a written as if it were a Harlequin romance novel nor should it be a laundry list of must haves or have-nots. Keep it short, engaging, and positive. Don’t be afraid to be playful. A great profile is less than 200 words. Online dating profiles that are between 150 to 180 words have the best results. Remember you are writing to men, they have an attention span of a gnat when it comes to online dating. You have a millisecond to grab their attention, so you need to make it count.

Women Should Seek Quality Not Quantity When Online Dating

One key to successful dating online is to understand that quality is more important than quantity. I have to reminder my private clients and my online students of this often. You shouldn’t have any issues having men contacting you if you follow the advice above, but if you want to increase the chances they are the type of men you are looking for, then you want to be very strategic in how you write your online dating profile. Take time upfront to know clearly who it is you are looking for. Then tailor your profile and pictures so they are attractive to that type of person. You may not receive as many responses, but the chances of your finding your match online increase dramatically when your profile is written to attract a specific type of person. Think of your online dating profile as the greatest marketing copy you will ever have to write.

I Leave Your With This Final Online Dating Advice

Online dating is a great tool for you to gain access to singles from all over. Have fun with it and don’t take it to seriously. If you find yourself getting frustrated with it then take a step back and reevaluate you expectations and your approach. Don’t forget I am here to be your online dating secret weapon if you want me to be. Simply reach out and let me know how I can help.

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Dating CoachKK, Kimberly Koehler is the leading dating and relationship coach in Minneapolis, MN who helps men and women globally. As a renowned coach and professional speaker I bring you practical and applicable strategies and solutions to the most common dating and relationship struggles. Date smarter, have stronger relationship and join me as we navigate the dating and relationship maze.
  1. I agree that your online dating profile should be short and engaging. It seems like many people will only spend a few seconds skimming it, so it makes sense that keeping it short can have a big impact. I’m also not confident with my writing skills, so I plan on having someone look over my profile to fix any errors and spruce it up a bit.

  2. Very helpful and great information.
    I appreciate advise especially coming from a professional.
    Thanks again and keep up the great work!

  3. I recently decided to get back into the field after my ex-boyfriend dumped me a few months ago. So thank you for telling me that it is a great idea to keep my profile positive and exciting. I will definitely be using this tip.

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